The female orgasm is something that can be tricky to be achieved, but it’s something that is more than worthwhile. In a recent study it was shown that only around 25% of women climax during regular sexual intercourse with their partner, while the statistics for men were around 90% for those claiming to have an orgasm each and every time, but the proper technique and proper knowledge of the female orgasm can help to make the former number a whole lot higher. A woman can orgasm in two ways, she can achieve multiple orgasms, squirting orgasms, or orgasms that range in intensity, but in order to see a female orgasm in the flesh, this may require a little learning.
One of the most common ways to achieve female orgasm is through clitoral stimulation, and this can be done using manual stimulation, oral stimulation, or during intercourse penetration. The clitoris is a small piece of hard flesh located under the clitoral hood, and finding the clitoris is an easy way to try to help her along on her orgasmic journey. If a person runs their finger from the opening of the vagina, and up towards the pubic mound through the inner labia, their finger will then be caught on a small piece of hood-like skin and right on top of the clitoris. The clitoris is absolutely packed with ultra-sensitive nerve endings, and direct or rough clitoral stimulation may have an opposite effect of a female orgasm and cause unintentional discomfort. If an orgasm is to be achieved through clitoral stimulation, this should be done gently and with open communication.
The second way that a female orgasm can be achieved is through inner stimulation and finding the G spot, and these are considered “inner” orgasms to the clitoral “outer” orgasms. Inner orgasms may be a bit more difficult to get the hang of, but the vast majority of women do have the ability to have them. With G spot stimulation female orgasms, the payoff will often be intense, so don’t feel discouraged if the process seems to be taking a while!
Both inner and outer female orgasms can be achieved through stimulation with your fingers, through oral sex, through penetration, and through the use of toys; it all depends on just what you and your partner prefer. If you’re looking to guide a woman to a female orgasm, creating a completely relaxing environment and communicating through the entire event can make things much easier. What many women don’t realize is that having inhibitions or self-consciousness can cause an amount of stress within the body that prevents her from focusing on the pleasure and reaching a point of climax, so a feeling of comfort should always be promoted. Once one female orgasm has been achieved, the female body doesn’t require the same “down time” as a man’s before round two, and the right amount of foreplay or arousal can actually allow her to have a chain reaction of multiple orgasms, whether from the inside or the outside!