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Squirting is a bit of a mystery to many men, and truth be told, many women as well. While squirting isn’t the most common type of orgasm out there, it’s not necessarily rare either, and many women don’t realize that they have the ability to squirt, but they just haven’t unlocked it yet. Almost all women have within them the ability to squirt, they just need to relax, lay back, and figure out how to make it work for their bodies.

Two parts of the body are working together in squirting orgasms, and this is the G spot and the Skene’s gland. Any woman who has both functioning orgasms, theoretically, also has the ability to squirt, and all she needs to learn is how to stimulate the G spot to build fluid in the Skene’s gland, then release it for an incredible climax.

If you want to make your woman squirt, find her G spot first. Make sure she is relaxed and comfortable with the experience, then have her lie on her back with her legs spread apart. When she is in position and aroused, insert a finger or two into her vagina, and feel for a small firm or rough area located about 2 to 3 inches along her frontal vaginal wall. The best way to do this is to have your fingers slightly curved inward, and insert yourself into her with your palm up.

The G spot particularly when aroused, will feel a little different from the rest of the vagina surrounding it, and the more aroused she gets, the more engorged the area will become. Start stimulating the area with a “come hither” motion with your fingers, and determine just how she likes her speed and pressure. For many women, starting off slowly and lightly, then building up to a faster pace with deeper pressure works well.

This stimulation will cause her Skene’s gland, located near the urethra, to begin producing and storing fluid, and this is the fluid that emits when she squirts. Against common misconception, this fluid is comprised similarly to semen, and not urine. When her Skene’s gland is ready to be released, she may feel a pressure that feels similar to the urge to urinate, and this is her cue to push. If done correctly, a gush of fluid will emerge from her urethra, and you’ve both unlocked the secret of the squirt.

A squirting orgasm is achieved when a woman is able to ejaculate during orgasm, and these types of orgasms have quite a few myths, with a few truths, associated with them. Squirting orgasms are achievable for many women, but not quite all, and getting to know a woman’s body a bit better is key to being able to unlock the mysteries of these types of very powerful orgasms. Many women find that squirting orgasms, or “wet orgasms” are far more intense than their “dry” counterparts, but they’re still not quite what you may see in porn.

A few myths associated with squirting orgasms are:

1. The big gush – This is something that’s a big seller in porn, which leads many to believe that this is what to be expected with a squirting orgasm, but this isn’t necessarily the truth. In porn, things needs to be bigger, better, more visible, and part of the fantasy, so it’s really no wonder why they use a “big gush” tactic when showing this type of orgasm on screen. Not to burst any bubbles, but this typically isn’t exactly real, and these big gushes are normally caused by water being pumped into the vagina pre-scene or having a woman urinate with force under the guise of an orgasm. In truth, a squirting orgasm will only produce about a teaspoon to a few tablespoons of fluid, and it could come out with a forceful squirt or a simpler dribble.

2. Squirting orgasms are universally more intense – Every woman’s body is different, and this rule applies to orgasms as well. A squirting orgasm may be significantly more intense for some women when compared to “dry” orgasms, and others may find they prefer the latter. For this reason, it’s always best to keep open communication with your partner to ensure they’re getting the satisfaction they want out of any orgasm experience.

3. It’s comprised of urine – This is probably one of the most common myths associated with squirting orgasms, and we have the medical science of the 1980’s to thank for it. Way back when, as squirting orgasms were first being brought to the attention of medical science, many theories revolved around these types of orgasms squirting mostly urine, but this bit of information is quite outdated. Modern medical science has now begun to theorize that the fluid created by a squirting orgasm is actually coming from the Skene’s glands inside of the vagina, rather than urine coming from the bladder.

With a realistic and myth-free approach to the female squirting orgasm, a couple can better understand just what causes these types of orgasms and what they can expect when they or their partner experiences one. Learning more about squirting orgasms as they pertain to a person’s individual body make-up will need to consist of learning more about that partner’s body and just what they like, but this can be quite the fun and informative journey into exciting trial and error!

A gushing orgasm is a term that is often used interchangeably with a squirting orgasm, but in truth, these things are slightly different. While the actual climax associate with both comes from the G spot, and has an incredible feeling of intensity, the different lies in the pressure, and while a squirting climax will, quite literally, squirt, a gushing orgasm will have more of a gushing pressure instead. A gushing orgasm can be achieved with the right inner stimulation, and as a woman gets more comfortable having gushing orgasms, the gushing itself may even begin to rise in intensity.

The first step in unlocking a gushing orgasm is finding the proper stimulation, and this type of stimulation will vary from woman to woman. While you may be experienced with outer or clitoral orgasms, gushing orgasms will require some inner stimulation, and this can be done with or without clitoral stimulation being performed simultaneously. Some women find that getting to the point of a gushing orgasm is easier with some clitoral stimulation, while others find it to be a distraction, so it’s best to listen to your partner and to communicate which methods may be working best.

Before stimulating the G spot and inner portions of the vagina, make sure to make her completely at ease and totally aroused. Building up the anticipation factor is a great way to ensure some pressure behind a gushing orgasm, and allowing her to clear her mind will give her what she needs mentally to bring herself to that point. Many women may have reservations and a thought of social stigma associated with gushing orgasms, and this can lead to these types of orgasms being almost impossible to achieve, so it’s best to let her know that this is something you both want to find success in.

After she is relaxed and aroused, and you’re really getting down to business, she may feel as though she has the urge to urinate before the gushing orgasm occurs, but it’s important to reassure her that this is a completely natural part of the climax. A gushing orgasm comes from fluid buildup in the Skene’s glands, which are located in close proximity to the bladder and urethra, and as the fluid builds itself to gush, it can cause the same pressure that a woman will feel when the urge to go to the bathroom occurs. It’s at this point in the process that many women try to stop themselves from following through with the climax, but they should be reassured that the feeling, and the gush, are completely natural.

With the right communication, openness, and relaxation, a gushing orgasm is something that is actually achievable for most women. Many women find that once they’ve had their first gushing orgasm, the intensity of the experience is unforgettable, and it soon becomes a goal they have during each and every sexual activity. The G spot stimulation required for a gushing orgasm can be achieved through manual, toy, or intercourse stimulation, and the preference depends solely on the woman!