For some women, the concept of masturbating is just absurd. They assume that the only sexual activity they are supposed to have is with a male partner of theirs. If you are one of those kinds of thinkers, you may want to reconsider the idea of working everything out on your own before you have a man in your life. While it is somewhat fun to find your special spots, like your G spot, with someone else, it can also be a very frustrating mood killer if you don’t figure things out. If you play with yourself ahead of time though, you will have an idea of what you should be doing with a partner.
The G spot is not exactly the easiest area of the body to pinpoint if you do not know what you are looking for, and that is one of the main reasons why it is best to masturbate before you have sex for the first time with someone. The G spot is about three inches inside the vagina walls, right behind the bladder. If you aim for that area and not the deeper part of the vagina like most women try, you will have a much better experience with sex in the end.
You can find your G spot with your fingers or a sex toy. Insert either of them into the vagina with the end pressed as if it was trying to go to the clit. It is best if you do this after you are fully aroused because that is when you will be the most sensitive. When you press something up there, you should get a sensation somewhat like you would if you had to use the restroom. You may also experience a warming sensation in your body, feeling a sudden urge to cool down. This is all good.
In time, you can tap the G spot enough to create an orgasm. Sometimes you can add some clitoral play for a little extra pleasure. The only thing you need to remember is not to masturbate too much. That may make you immune to the pleasures that a male body can provide you with. Take some time to learn about yourself, and then you will have an easier time helping your man please you. Both of you can enjoy your orgasm in the end, at least if everything goes according to plan.